The Devoted Husband
In 1925 Keynes married Russian ballerina Lydia Lopokova
“I have your letter. It is so very nice. I kiss you much. You build up my existence.”

(Lydia Lopokova)

IN 1918 Keynes met Lydia at a party to celebrate the Ballets Russes of Diaghilev in London. Three years later, enthralled by Lydia’s performance in Sleeping Beauty, Keynes sat several times on his own in the stalls. After a backstage meeting, which he sought, he asked her out to dinner. Two weeks later he found an excuse to accommodate her in an apartment above his in Bloomsbury.

This unexpected love affair appalled his Bloomsbury friends. A year after marrying they had a miscarriage and subsequently never had children. Although many of Keynes’s gay friends also got married in early middle age as way of ‘disguising’ their sexuality, Keynes’s marriage to Lydia was genuine.

As noted by Virginia Woolf, ‘Maynard is passionately and pathetically in love, because he sees very well that he’s dished if he marries her, and she has him by the snout’ (1924).

Love Letters - Keynes & Lydia
  • From Lydia to Keynes 28 December 1918

    "Dear J. Keynes, The book was most welcomed, and I appreciate indeed your charming thought".
  • From Lydia to Keynes 3 November 1922

    "Maynard I am so fond of you. I caress your slender fingers".
  • From Lydia to Keynes 16 November 1923

    "Your mother is a nice woman. You have her eyes and searching mind. I like to look at her".
  • From Keynes to Lydia 18 February 1924

    "Yes, this time I agree with you (I ought to agree always, because you are wiser than me – less intelligent but more wise)".
  • From Lydia to Keynes 22 October 1924

    "We, your mother and I, unloaded our feelings for you and for each other in relation of your being our entire idol".
  • From Keynes to Lydia 19 October 1924

    "Do you think the judge will give me a divorce, after all he might not, and I am a pessimist at present in ‘decree nisi’".
  • From Keynes to Lydia 23 October 1924

    "You must have no doubts. The [divorce] case is good".
  • From Lydia to Keynes 15 February 1925

    "I kiss your warm nest of a mouth".
In numbers
1918
KEYNES FIRST MET LYDIA
42
KEYNES’S AGE WHEN HE MARRIED IN 1925
1926
LYDIA HAS A MISCARRIAGE
200k
NUMBER OF WORDS LYDIA WROTE TO KEYNES FROM 1922 - 1937
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